Being in a relationship has a lot of benefits for mental health. Of course, to get those benefits, you first have to be in a serious relationship with someone you trust. Or you have to be in a casual relationship, but both of you should know it’s just a casual thing. That will save one, or both of you, from getting hurt. You can’t expect to enjoy any positive sides of relationships if you aren’t honest and have hidden intentions. And it pays off to be in a good relationship. We’ll show you 3 reasons for that now.
You Feel Calm
Some people don’t understand how important it is to feel calm not just in a relationship, but in life in general. The opposite of calm is restless, nervous. Those are constant feelings you can’t shake off easily. Nervousness can evolve into anxiety, and then you have a serious mental health issue. There are different causes for anxiety and nervousness, but being in a good relationship is like a magic pill.
When you have someone you can trust on your side; it’s much easier to deal with everything the world throws at you. Is boss screaming at your face again? Who cares? Your perfect partner will cure everything with a hug. You have an important presentation, but you can’t find the courage to speak publicly? Great, practice in front of your partner; it will calm you down. But that calmness isn’t something that occurs now and then; it’s something you can’t lose (if you are in a good relationship). That’s a permanent feeling that everything will be fine because you and your partner are together. That’s a feeling of safety that’ll pamper you as long as you continue growing your relationship.
You Feel Happy and Needed by Your Partner
What does everybody want from life? Everybody, every single person on the planet. Yes, we all want the same thing. That isn’t the same for everyone, but still, everyone is trying to get it. The answer to this riddle is simple. You can probably discover it on your own by reading a together2night review. Or you can continue reading this (the answer will be revealed) and read a review later.
Everybody wants to be happy; we all want to get happiness and make it stay with us for the rest of our lives. Remember, happiness has a different meaning for different people, but most people feel happy while in a relationship built on trust, respect, and (later) love. People often don’t understand that happiness is a complex feeling. It depends on numerous other feelings. One of them is feeling you’re needed. That’s why people volunteer; they want to feel needed. They want to go to bed knowing they helped someone that day. That fills people with happiness, but you don’t have to build houses for those in need to get a shot of that feeling. If you want, you can become addicted to it. But, of course, you have to be in a relationship with someone who makes you happy and doesn’t hesitate to ask for your help. Just be careful you don’t let it go too far because the line between feeling needed and being in a relationship with someone needy is thin.
There is a Person Nearby Who is Always Ready to Listen About Your Problems
Loneliness is another feeling nobody wants to taste, but we all do. Luckily, most of us don’t feel lonely all the time. Feeling lonely 24/7 is a portal to depression. Avoiding that is another benefit of being in a good relationship. Before we get back to explaining why having a shoulder to cry on is a wonderful safety net, we’ll explain what does a good relationship mean:
- a relationship in which both partners are 100% honest from the start
- a relationship built on trust and mutual respect
- a relationship that isn’t in danger even during your wildest fight because you know all the problems will pass, and all you’ll have after that storm will be your partner
- A good relationship doesn’t have to last forever. Many good relationships didn’t last long, but a good relationship should end in a civilized and respectful way without any bad feelings.
There are more definitions of quality relationships, but you get the point. Now to get back to explaining why mental health must have someone who listens to you talking about your problems. Keeping negativity inside is one of the worst things you can do to your mental and physiological health. On the other hand, talking about your problems with someone you can trust (professionals included) gives a feeling of relief. Not only that, but it also strengthens the bond between you and the person you’re talking to. If that person is your partner, that’s classic killing 2 birds with 1 rock.